Tip No. 8 – Wedding Favours on a Budget

DIY is hot! (As long as it doesn’t look like a 4 year old made it!)

You may remember my post “What Favours Do You Favour” here, from a while back. Well this is a budget friendly expansion on that post! The trick to coming up with brilliant, well received wedding favours that your guests will LOVE is to use your imagination! In the brainstorming stages be as outrageous as you want, and throw out every idea you can think of. Make a fun evening out of it! Grab a big sheet of paper, make some popcorn and sit down with your hubby-to-be and think about all of the things that the two of you love. Things you love to do together, places you love to go, things you love to make etc and just write every single thing down. At the end of the evening you’ll have a giant list of all kinds of fun things that can totally be turned into a special and personal wedding favour.

DIY guest favours can be a lot of fun, and are a great way to add a personal touch to your wedding that guests will remember and enjoy! It’s a great way to get your creative juices flowing and gives you full control over the finished product! Here are a few of my personal faves:

1. Bake cookies with your grandma’s secret family cookie recipe! Put them in a cute little bag or a box and affix a nice tag that explains why the family recipe is secret, or where it came from, or even why you and your fiance love them so much. I think it would even be cute to do some little ‘directions’ on how to eat! Such as…

Step 1: “Remove cookie from plastic bag”

Step 2: “Place cookie on microwave safe plate”

Step 3: “Microwave for between 5 and 15 seconds depending on your microwave’s intensity”

Step 4: “Pour approximately 1 cup of milk into a coffee cup”

Step 5: “Dunk cookie in milk”

Step 6: “Put warm, milk-dunked cookie in mouth”

Step 7: “Say Mmmmmm out loud”

Step 8: “Repeat, as necessary”

hehehe….ok, so that might be a little too quirky for your taste, but customize it to say whatever floats your boat!

2. Or why not give each guest a gift basket or a blend of herbs and spices that you use to make your favourite dish, print out the ingredients and cooking instructions for the dish so they can try it themselves at home? Maybe some incredible cooking oils that have your monogram or names and wedding date on them! Or perhaps a relative of yours makes the best pasta sauce in the world and you could convince them to spend a day with you and your fiancé making up some jars. I found these fun spice mixtures on Etsy here and love them! Popcorn seasoning…amazing…who doesn’t love a little Dill Pickle on their popcorn?!

{Etsy Shop ~ Dell Cove Spice Company}

3. If your wedding is in the winter (or heck, any time of year really), why not buy some warm (but cute) socks!! Totally practical! I mean…who doesn’t wear socks!?! You could even buy them in your wedding colours so that every time your friends and family put them on, they’ll think of you! (Plus – they won’t get mixed in with all the other black and grey socks you’ve got). This fun frenzy of colourful socks is from HappySocks.com!

Favour Socks

{Happy Socks.com}

Happy Planning!

Even if you’re not a DIY bride, would you DIY your wedding favours?!

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Tip No. 7 – Wedding Attire on a Budget

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Attire can very easily be an area of a wedding budget that blows over very quickly. If you’re trying to save some cash for yourself and your bridal party take some of these suggestions into account!

Shop smart. That might seem obvious…but seriously. Use your head before you use your wallet! Come up with all of the possible options of how you can get yourself and your attendants their wedding day outfits and then decide which is going to be the best option for you and your fiancé!

Let’s start with your bridal party…

Have the groomsmen wear a suit that they already have. Or if they don’t have the right colour, and you’re a stickler for matching, they can go out and purchase a suit that’s the right colour but is within their own price point so they don’t feel pressured to buy something too expensive.

Bridesmaids can either all wear a similar dress shade – some may already have a fabulous dress that will work and they may be happy to have an occasion to wear it again, or some might want to hunt for something new! But either way, they are able to spend as much or as little as they want as long as they stay within your specifications. If you do have a vision of all your ladies in the same dress that’s totally fine…but stay away from bridal shops for this purpose. Go to a fun little boutique or even a store at the mall and purchase the dresses there! You will find more fashion forward styles and get a lot more bang for your buck. P.S. there are some tres fabulous outlet stores that you can check out and get gowns for a steal! Personal fave – the BCBG outlet store in Mississauga…If you haven’t been there – you must go!!!

Use Etsy to your advantage! I swear this site has more stuff on it than you could ever hope for – plus, some shops will even do custom pieces. Does your grandmother or your fiancé’s grandmother sew?! Chances are that at least one of them does! So pick out some fabric and a really cute pattern and ask her if she’d do you the honour of making your bridesmaids dresses (it could be her wedding present for you!). You could even have her make ties for the groomsmen too!

The groom in this wedding made all of the ties for his groomsmen!

And forget about trying to match everyone’s shoes! The fact is that everyone’s feet are different and most of your friends would probably rather wear a pair of their own shoes that they know are comfortable! Or would like to at least buy the shoes from a store they know they love. If you want to suggest that they stay in a certain colour scheme that’s great, or if you want them all to wear heels or flats that’s a fine request too – just give them the opportunity to choose their shoes and their tootsies will thank you.

Heck – non-matching dresses and non-matching shoes…as long as they’re all carrying a bouquet, isn’t it fairly obvious that they’re a bridesmaid?!  I think it is.

So whether you’re going to be the one purchasing the outfits for each of your attendants, or you’re going to have them pay for it themselves, these are all great ways to keep the costs down.

Now – for the bride and groom…

If you’re going for the ‘drama’ factor of having multiple looks on your wedding day (aka changing into a reception gown), consider some of the fabulous convertible gowns that are out there these days!! Vanessa Minillo rocked a fabulous convertible Monique Lhuiller gown for her wedding to Nick Lachey last year and I think she was onto something!

A piece of advice. DON’T…I repeat, DO NOT purchase a dress that is on sale or that you think you like enough to wear on your wedding day. Not only will this stress you out, but it is foolish to think that even though you don’t love it or it’s not what you were envisioning, that the price tag alone will make you fall in love with it. Not the case. And more often than not a bride that purchases a gown on a whim, or because it’s on a great ‘one day only’ sale ends up in a pickle later on when they realize they still don’t love it and they’re going to have to buy yet another dress. So save your ‘sale’ money that would be wasted on a gown that’s not the one and put it towards the gown that IS the one when you find it! And you will find it.

And for the lucky groom – I will suggest similar things as I did for the groomsmen. However, it’s his ‘big day’ too, so if he wants a new suit, I think he should be allowed to have one! Personal tip – check out the Harry Rosen outlet (right beside the BCBG outlet in Mississauga – I’m not kidding. It’s almost not even fair) and be wowed at the fabulous designer suits that you will find. And at the end of the day – having a designer suit it tailored to fit will cost a heck of a lot less than a made to measure.

groomsman attire

Happy Planning!

What do you think of these alternative wedding attire options?!

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Tip No. 6 – Venue on a Budget

The best way to really save money on your dream venue would be to book in their off-season. Typically the “off-season” in the wedding world begins in October/November and runs until March/April.

So – think about having a fall or winter wedding! And don’t think for a second that just because your wedding is in the winter your colour palette has to consist of Christmas colours, or be a Winter Wonderland. Far from it! It’s YOUR wedding! You could have your wedding decor be a little ‘escape’ from the chill of the winter and do really colourful flowers! It’s completely up to you. Oh – and lots of candles will bring warmth to any space – winter or summer. The ideas are endless (and gorgeous by the way)!

I saw this photo the other day and thought it looked bright and springy but when I looked at it further I realized how fabulous it could be for a winter wedding! Why not!? The bright whites with punchy purple and yellow. I love it!

spring or winter florals

And if you’re a little bummed about being ‘stuck’ indoors why not add some string lights to the ceiling of your venue. The glowing light will almost be like having the stars overhead!

string lighting

But if you’ve always dreamed of being a spring or summer bride, you can save big by booking your wedding on a Friday or Sunday as mentioned in my post here. In some instances, an automatic 50% is knocked off the venue rental price. If you decide to go with a Friday just make sure to schedule your wedding at a time that allows your guests enough time to get finished with work, and you give them plenty of advance notice. A save the date is often a good idea if your wedding will be held on a day of the week other than Saturday.

If you’re booking your wedding in peak season and you’re pretty set on a Saturday, why not save some money by having a non-traditional reception?! You could do an early ceremony followed by a brunch reception! This will save you a lot of money on the alcohol that will be consumed, and breakfast foods are always less expensive than dinner foods. Or you could do a late ceremony followed by an all night cocktail reception! This saves on a ton of centrepieces and formal table decor that may otherwise be required, as most of the guests will be standing and dancing and mingling for the evening!

And if you’re not down for the off-season, you don’t like the Friday/Sunday option and you’re determined to do a full sit down meal…at least keeping the ceremony and reception in the same location will save you the extra fee of renting two separate spaces!

Happy Planning!

Would you ever go for one of these budget saving venue alternatives?!

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Tip No. 5 – Transportation on a Budget

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6 months, 1 year, 5 years after your wedding – who is going to remember what type of vehicle you arrived in?! Unless one of your guests is a major car connoisseur…probably not a lot of people! If you’re trying to save some cash, maybe opt for a school bus instead of a limo or a classic car. There’s something retro and fun about a school bus, and you can decorate the heck out of it! Ask your bridesmaids to be the “interior bus designers” and let them go to town putting up some streamers and balloons inside! They could even put some fun bunting along the outside.

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If you’re city slickers and aren’t crazy about the school bus scenario, why not opt for pre-ordering a number of cabs to transport you to your venue? Think of the great photo op you’ll get of you stepping out of a cab in a wedding dress – it would be such a fun shot! Just make sure to pre-order them!!!! It would be a little sketch if you were late for your ceremony because your cab was late!

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Another option is to rent a few smaller vehicles for the day – hybrid vehicles perhaps? Saving the environment one wedding at a time! Haha But seriously – You can rent large or small vehicles for a fraction of the cost it would be to rent chauffeured transportation and if you ask a good friend or an uncle or something (even a neighbor that isn’t in the wedding!), chances are they’d be thrilled to be a part of your wedding day and won’t mind being the chauffeur.

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Or if you really and truly don’t care how you arrive, just ask a few people to drive you and to your venue in their own vehicles! I promise, people won’t think less of you and chances are they won’t even remember the next day.

What are your thoughts on wedding day transportation?!

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Tip No. 4 – Don’t Skimp on your DJ

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Having been to a LOT of weddings, I am going to give you a piece of advice.

“A good DJ is so worth your money!”

You may be inclined to skimp in this area, because come on…how hard can it be to play music right?! I mean, everybody and their mother has an iPod these days! Isn’t it the same thing?!

NOT EVEN CLOSE!

It is not an easy task at all! Playing music that appeals to a crowd of 100+ guests is tricky by any standards. And not only does an experienced DJ play good music that you’ve requested, but they read the crowd and will change songs accordingly if one is not getting the best response. They mix in enough slow songs with more upbeat ones, and they really do the legwork on the front end to find out what kind of music you and your fiancé like best. Don’t make the classic mistake of “well my friend’s dad’s cousin’s ex-step brother is a DJ, I might just use him because we won’t be charged much at all” – Fair enough – there are lots of DJs around, everybody knows someone that DJ’s whether extensively, or just as a hobby. But be VERY careful. There are so many horror stories when decisions are made based solely on the least expensive option. Going this route is like buying a Kitchenaid mixer and claiming you’re now a gourmet chef (*Note: I have a Kitchenaid mixer…and I burn spaghetti sauce). Or buying a really fancy car and claiming you’re now a race car driver. You still need training and experience in order to have a good reputation.

The DJ is definitely not an area that I suggest try to “skimp” on. The DJ has more of an impact on an event than you might think. Essentially, they can make or break the party! My tip for DJs is to really do your research. Talk to as many people as you can about their experiences with DJ’s at their own wedding, or other weddings they’ve attended. Ask your venue if there is a DJ that they recommend, or that has successfully done a number of weddings in the space. You’ll want to know what the DJ’s style is. Are they interactive or do they fade more into the background? Use social networking sites to your advantage. Try posting “Know any good DJs?” on Twitter or Facebook and be prepared for several suggestions. Firsthand references are always best and may even end up getting you a deal. Make sure that whoever you choose clicks with your personalities and understands the way you want the party to run.

Here are a few things I highly suggest you investigate before hiring any DJ.

  1. Insist on a DJ who specializes in weddings. There are radio DJs, club DJs, and mobile event DJs. Each one is trained to specialize in a completely different kind of entertainment. A club DJ will have mixing skills, while they will likely have no idea how to formally make announcements to guests at your wedding, as an event DJ will.
  2. Make sure your DJ will customize music to your taste, play music you want, and avoid music you really don’t want YET they have a wide variety of music on hand and are able to read the crowd and play music accordingly.
  3. Find out how long they have been DJ-ing and how many weddings they have done. You definitely don’t want to be the guinea pig for anyone!
  4. Make sure that your DJ has the highest quality sound equipment as well as backup equipment should some unforeseen circumstances occur.
  5. Ask what their typical attire would be, and what you expect them to wear.
  6. At what time will they be arriving to setup?
  7. Find out whether they carry liability insurance?
  8. Ask if they provide a wireless microphone for speeches? Are any lighting effects included?
  9. Find out about contracts, guarantees, refunds/cancellation terms, and what the terms of payment are (Is tax included? Are travel expenses extra? What will you be charged for overtime if the party is in full swing and you’d like them to stay an extra hour?)

Good luck in your search for the perfect DJ for your fabulous wedding!

What are you doing for your entertainment?!

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